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The Most Magical Word

November 14, 2011 By Erika Zane

14 Nov

We all know that when most parent’s ask, “What’s the magic word?”, they are looking for a specific response.  Namely, the word “please”.

I’m not talking about that magic word.

I’m talking about a word I have waited 22 months to hear.  A word I thought he’d start saying a long time ago, but it’s probably all that much more special because it did take so long.

The list of words he’s been saying for months include:

  • more (maw maw maw)
  • please (peas)
  • thank you (da do)
  • Abby (Ayee) – our cat
  • Daddy (Da Dee)

Do you see the word that’s missing that I might want to hear most of all?  I’m going to assume you do.

Little Man started saying mommy (Ma Mee) this week.  All week long, he’s been saying it.  Mommy this and mommy that.  It’s like music to my ears!  I never, in a million years, thought something so small would mean so much to me.  My heart completely melts every.single.time he says that word.

So there you have it.  One more thing to be thankful for!

Of course, it wouldn’t be real life if this didn’t have a down side.  “Mommy” is also, suddenly, the only person allowed to do anything for LM.  This includes, but is not limited to:

  1. holding his hand to go up the stairs
  2. putting on his socks and shoes
  3. putting on his clothes
  4. changing his diaper
  5. holding him and/or holding his hand while walking

I’m not sure what happened.  Months of needing me less and less, totally reversed within a matter of days.

But, it doesn’t matter.  For now, and probably forever, that word and the sweetness with which he says it, is enough to make up for all the inconveniences in the world.

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  1. Rebecca says

    November 14, 2011 at 10:35 pm

    So precious! Grace said mama early on, but it’s dada that she’s all about these days. So, I try to take it as a compliment when she calls me dada 🙂 come to think of it, I haven’t heard mama for quite some time!

    LM is so cute 🙂

    • Erika @NaMammaSte says

      November 17, 2011 at 12:09 am

      aw! I’d love to have a daddy’s little girl someday too. Maybe one day 🙂

      Grace is adorable, too. I loved her Halloween costume, btw! Being a parent rocks.

  2. Amber says

    December 1, 2011 at 11:19 am

    I can’t pick just one!

    “I love you” ranks high, of course. But I also adore it when he tells me “I’m happy, mama” or when he says “wanna hold you?”

    It really is great being a mom. 🙂
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